NOW THIS IS A VICTIM!
This old, white guy is not a victim. It has occurred to me in recent years that some of our brethren feel all of us are victims of something or someone. Now if we are playing house and you want to tie me you up, then voluntary victimization can be a reality. Just don't tie the knots real tight!
But in everyday life I think we encounter very few "victims". As defined by Webster;
a person who has been attacked, injured, robbed, or killed by someone else
: a person who is cheated or fooled by someone else